Posted by Pynk on December 13, 2000 at 15:18:52:
In Reply to: On being a (good) stepfather posted by Wolfspirit on December 13, 2000 at 01:17:39:
I would suggest that if there is any discipline to be done, that it be done by the kids mother, and not you. Also, let there be times that the mother and her kids get chances to do things without you.....AND with you. Good luck.
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